This fixes how the server checks for database notifications by using the correct underlying connection object. It helps keep notification handling reliable in multi-process and multi-threaded deployments without changing user-facing features.

`notifies` is the attribute of the raw connection, not the cursor. Fix in multi-process, multi-threaded version is ok.


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